Building Strong Relationships on the First Day of School

Each year, I am so excited for the first day of school. It’s a time for new beginnings, new relationships, a love of learning, and a whole lotta fun!!

But what I often forget is how CrAzY the first day of school, especially arrival time, can be. All the questions, all the welcomes, and all the logistics provide for a chaotic time.

We want our students to feel happy, welcomed, and stress-free when they enter our rooms, especially on the first day. In an effort to get to know my students better, I have students make their own Doodle Tents.

How To Create Doodle Tents

This activity is the very first thing my students do when they walk in. Crayons, markers, and colored pencils are ready for students on their tables. I want them to be able to unpack LATER after we’ve done a few team-building things and practiced some essential routines.

Making Doodle Tents is VERY easy, fun, and direct. It allows students to settle into the morning with something about them, and it also gives me the ability to circulate, greet new students, answer questions, and get all of the logistics out of the way so that we can enjoy our first day together. Make this activity your own by allowing students to add doodles, what they are excited about this year, what they might be wondering, and more!

Why Is Building Relationships with Your Students So Important?

Creating a Safe Learning Environment

When students feel valued and understood by their teacher, they are more likely to feel safe and comfortable in the classroom. This sense of security is foundational for learning. If a child knows their teacher cares about them and is interested in their success, they are more likely to take risks, ask questions, and fully engage in their learning.

Encouraging Positive Behavior

Building strong relationships helps teachers understand the unique needs and personalities of each student. When students feel seen and appreciated, they are more likely to exhibit positive behavior. By establishing mutual respect, you can minimize disruptions and create a more harmonious classroom environment. Knowing your students well also enables you to tailor your approach to discipline and support, making it more effective.

Boosting Academic Achievement

Research shows that students who have strong relationships with their teachers tend to perform better academically. When students feel connected to their teacher, they are more motivated and engaged in their schoolwork. This connection can inspire a love for learning and help students overcome academic challenges, knowing they have a supportive mentor to guide them.

Building Confidence and Self-Esteem

For 3rd to 5th graders, self-esteem and confidence are crucial as they navigate the challenges of growing up. Positive teacher-student relationships can significantly boost a child’s confidence. When students receive encouragement and recognition from their teachers, they are more likely to believe in their abilities and strive for success.

Long-Term Benefits

The benefits of building strong relationships extend beyond the classroom. Students who feel connected to their teachers are more likely to develop positive attitudes towards school and learning, which can last a lifetime. These relationships also teach valuable social skills, such as communication, empathy, and cooperation.

Click through to find more Back-to-School activities and freebies to help build relationships from the first day of school!

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